Something unfair was bothering me. I was hurt and shit, and so I gave myself a talking-to.

There's nothing you can do about it! Forgive even if the person is not sorry. Walang magagawa ang feelings mo sayo.

Amazing. Right after deciding to move on, I felt oddly calm.

So lesson: first step is always deciding. Face it, and tell yourself to forgive and let go of the hurt. Keeping feelings in the background just builds up to a constant annoyance, and will blow up later.